It's been a long time, and I have no excuse, since I've been in bed for a majority of the last two weeks. My back is giving me fits, and Dirk had to come home from a deployment to take care of me and the boys. I just couldn't get out of bed... the muscle spasms were too bad. Ugh.
Funny and great things have happened as I lay in my bed. Life went on without me... the boys are still alive and well and have gotten to spend some quality time with their dad. I am learning to let go of the guilt about not being able to do everything. Actually, not being able to do alot! I am coming to terms, and realize that this is necessary growth, and God is asking me to do it :)
We are enjoying a wonderful Christmas....Declan got up early as usual (ONLY 5:30 this morning) and as I requested, came and got in bed with me and we got up when we heard Nana and Papa coming in and out with presents! So, we headed for the living room at 6:30 and Declan opened his stocking gifts from Santa and played in the Mega Bloks Adventure Castle from Dirk and I. Torin woke up around 7:30 and was not in a good mood (he hadn't gone to sleep until 11:30 the night before...but Declan coaxed him out of his bad mood with the sword from his part of the castle set! Pretty soon he was all smiles and looking through his stocking. Dirk was scheduled to sit alert from 8am Christmas Eve until 8am Christmas day...so we waited and opened presents when he got here. Kelly also got here about that time. We all enjoyed a breakfast casserole and carmel tamales (yes you read that right! good...you just have to think "out of the box" as far as what a tamale is supposed to taste like!) and opened presents. WE got lots of great pics and everyone loved all their goodies. Kelly and Dirk took the boys to the park to play with Declan's new ball set from Kelly while I took a NAP! My mom (Nana) slaved in the kitchen and came up with a beautiful Chrismas dinner, which we ate between 2:30 and 3pm. Dirk's parents (G-Mo and Papa to the boys) got in around 5pm, after a delayed flight cost them extra hours.
Now all the grandparents have gone to their respective sleeping places, and Kelly and Dirk are on the couch playing with their Macs :) Torin is watching the Save-Ums and I'm resting my back so I'm ready for the long ordeal which will be his going to sleep. Poor guy's had troubles getting to sleep lately...
but we have gotten some good one-liners out of it! I've been nursing him laying down on his bed, since I cannot carry him anymore (due to my back) and he's said some funny things like he wanted "the big one" or the "bigger one" and the funniest wasn't at bedtime, but in the afternoon when he was trying to convince me to give him Nu-nums and he said "me pay you...me have LOTS a moneys". I tried not to laugh and said okay and held out my hand. He pantomimed handing me pretend money and I said "okay pretend nu-nums for pretend money". He was NOT happy :)
So, I better wrap this up, but look forward to blogging more regularly as we try to add more of a Charlotte Mason flavor to our home learning life.
Blessings, Cid
"To educate a man in mind and not in morals is to educate a menace to society."
~ Theodore Roosevelt